at least..

he did not die because someone driving a car knocked him down

he did not have cancer for one, five, ten years

he was not in pain for more than about five minutes

he did not die from a heroin overdose

he did not take some coke that had been cut with some unknown devilish ingredient

he did not do something feckless like jumping out of a plane or bungy jumping

he was not shot on the streets of south london along with a couple of dozen other young men this year

he did not go to fight someone else's war and lose his life there

he was not in a plane crash, or a ferry disaster, or a collapsed mine-shaft or a treacherous arctic expedition

he was not fool enough to climb everest, go into space or try to take on the outback

its not his fault. and its not anyone else's fault.

there is no-one to blame

shit happens